D-Tour #1: Arts and Scraps



Proudly toting her treasure




Looking forward to shopping

 

Ever get stuck in a rut with the kids? We're all guilty of doing it. The same park. The same coffee shop. The same play date. The same library. Same same same same…blah! We live in a great metropolitan area with so much to offer in the way of family entertainment. This is the first in a series of "D-Tours" (outings to fun and unique places in the metro-Detroit area). So many of my friends with kids are hesitant to venture into “The City” with the bambinos, so I will try to focus on trips into the D.



Look at all the goodies!



Arts and Scraps

This afternoon, another child-wrangling adult and I headed to the east side of Detroit to visit Arts and Scraps. Our mission was two-fold: stock up on some rainy day supplies and pick up a few activities to keep the wee ones busy at Lincoln’s upcoming birthday party. While he’s only going to be one year old, there will be plenty of kids joining the festivities who will need something to do to keep busy.




I grabbed a big bag and Eleanor got a small sack. The deal is you get to fill each of them with as much “treasure” as you like for $7 and $3.50, respectively. The goodies to choose from consist of donated items that include things like rubbery stickers, pipe cleaners, corks, foamy shapes, fabric swatches, beads, empty oatmeal containers, and who knows what else will show up tomorrow. Barrels and barrels of trash abound just waiting for someone to turn it into a masterpiece. While whatever is created won’t likely

Helpful volunteers

join the ranks of the DIA, watching your little ones express themselves through creativity is priceless. My 2+ year old loved the freedom of “shopping” for whatever she wanted and taking inventory (repeatedly) when we got home. She’s already spent hours packing and unpacking and sticking and un-sticking little foamy circles to paper, herself, her brother…

Aquarium kit

A+S has done an amazing job at putting together project kits with all the fixings for a quick art break. Each package costs $1.50 and if you purchase 10 you get 2 free. We stocked up on kits for Lincoln’s party and picked up a few more for gifts.

This was a great D-Tour, not only because Arts and Scraps was a fun way to spend a solid hour hanging with the kids, but also because what we picked up for about $20 will provide hours upon hours of creative entertainment for the kids.



Kit corner with dozens of projects to take home.



Details

Free entry

Located just south of Cadieux on Harper (read: convenient to the freeway)
16135 Harper

Detroit, MI 48224

www.artsandscraps.org

313-640-4411

Open: Tuesday and Thursday 11-6 and Saturday 11-4

Safe, gated parking

You can check out a Museum Adventure Pass from your local library (FREE) and participate in Scrap Junction (SJ). At SJ, adults and kids create and learn together at 5 interactive stations. This looks like a fun program that we’ll definitely return to enjoy.

Consider the following additional programs offered by A+S

• Workshops-for students or families

• Invite the ScrapMobile to your school
• Events-custom-project at their place or yours

• Birthday parties-kids complete 2 projects and get to “shop” the ScrapMobile

• Adult training and team building

• Volunteer-youth, adult and special needs volunteers are all welcome. Call the store to schedule.



Tuckerd out on the way home







Dinner Drama

As a busy lady who also wears the hats of mom and wife, the question "What's for dinner?" typically makes my head hurt. This question is usually complicated by the fact that both my husband and I are budding foodies. In an effort to make this question less irritating, we have instituted a meal planning strategy that seems to work for us. In a nutshell, here it is:


1. Pick a menu planning day. We usually choose a Friday or a Saturday to go through our tried and true favorite cook books and pick 4-5 recipes we want to prepare for the week. We don't do an entire week because we account for a leftover night and an eating out night. When complete, post the menu in a common family spot. We are flexible with our meals. For example, we may have planned for chicken on Monday, but end up making pork instead. Just agree to make it through your menu before the week is up.

2. Make a shopping list. Based on the menu chosen, we make a list of what we need in order to make the meals a reality. We also add staples and snacks that will get us through the week.

3. Check the coupon file and blog sites. For the casual coupon user this might not happen every time and that’s ok. Make your list, check the file and go. However, if you are more ambitious and a seasoned coupon-er, you’re going to want to check the blogs (Bargains to Bounty is first on my list followed by the coupon database), pull out/print the ones for the items on your list and hit the market. Don’t be discouraged if this takes you a half an hour or more. It will likely pay off with savings at the register.

4. Make it happen. When practical, prep for the next meal the night before (maybe while your spouse does the dishes). And if you don't execute your entire menu in one week, be sure to freeze those valuable ingredients or use them early next week. An unexpected date night or late night at the office is no excuse for letting tenderloin go bad.

5. Keep records. If a recipe sucks, make note in your cookbook to avoid duplicating efforts in a few months. Likewise, if you modify a recipe be sure to make notes.

6. Share! I love sharing a quick, easy, yummy meal find with friends and family. The beauty of sharing your good finds is that your foodie friends will likely return the favor. I'll share some of our tried and true favorites here.

Fine Line

 

Hoping that she’d understand my telepathy, I gave the whistleblower “all-knowing, you-rock, I would have done the same thing if someone cut in front of me” looks while shaking my head reproachfully at the line jumper. 

Has this happened to you?  What is your responsibility if you’re the cashier?  How can these offenders be stopped?

Tasty Tomato Salsa

I've invited the lovely, talented and creative Audrey to join us a guest blogger today (really more of a recipe submitter, but calling her a blogger is way cooler). My mom indicated that my little sis has been putting her red, ripe ones to use in a tasty salsa. What followed was no small amount of harassing and pestering on my part to get her to give up the info. Finally, she acquiesced.

Lotsa fresh ripe Michigan tomatoes, diced
1 whole Vidalia onion, diced
2 jalapeños, diced
2 lemons' juices
2 limes' juices
a couple o’ tablespoons of fresh pressed garlic
a handful of fresh cilantro leaves, chopped
a couple teaspoons of sugar
salt
pepper
touch of cumin
dash of cayenne pepper
bit of red pepper flake

Let set for a few hours, drain a bit of the liquid, devour!
A point of clarification: the difference between a touch, a dash and a bit is up to your buds. 

In the absence of any salsa pictures, I’ve opted to include a few of little Auddie instead.

What a little more than $11 (and a fistfull of coupons) gets you at Meijer

I SAVED $28.85!

8 boxes of Barilla Piccolini pasta
8 boxes of Barilla whole grain pasta
a pound of mini-bellas
a pound of baby carrots
3 boxes of frozen rice/mushrooms
6 pounds of Jonamac apples

Now, it may seem that we are into all things small but that's just what was on sale that matched up.  When I put together my shopping list, I consulted Bargains to Bounty.  In addition to matching up Meijer, she does several other metro Detroit area grocers.  I'll be hitting Kroger for the $3.99 rotisserie chicken (great for sandwiches, quesadillas and feeding the babies) and $0.39/lb bananas later this week, too.  Oak Ridge market has Yoplait deals for $0.20 each, so I'll be stocking up on those, too. 

More 'maters!

In a world where we measure how good something is by the amount of effort it takes to get it, this pasta dish should be disgusting.  It is so easy!  In fact, I encourage you to include your kids in the process of making dinner.  This dish is not only yummy the first day, it makes an amazing cold salad that is sure to impress at office pot lucks. 

Pasta with Salsa Cruda

Tomatoes, 1 1/2 lbs, cored and coarsely chopped (if you have a plethora of cherry tomatoes, just cut them in 1/2-super easy)
Garlic, 2 cloves, minced (my toddler loves to help squeeze the garlic press)
Fresh basil, 1/2 cup, slivered
Olive Oil, 1/2 cup (I use closer to 1/4 cup)
Red pepper flakes, 1/2 tsp
Mozzarella cheese, smoked of fresh, 1/2 lb, cubed
Pine nuts, 1/4 cup
salt and pepper
Pasta, I like Farfalle for this one, but use anything medium sized
Prosciutto, 2 oz thinly sliced, chopped

Serves 4

1  Prepare the sauce
In a large bowl, combine the tomatoes, garlic, basil, oil, and red pepper flakes.  Stir well and let stand at room temp for about 15 minutes.  Stir in the cheese and let stand for about 10 minutes longer.

2 Toast the pine nuts
Meanwhile, in a small frying pan over medium-high heat, toast the pine nuts, stirring often, until fragrant (about 1-2 minutes).  Transfer to a plate and set aside.

3 Cook the pasta
Bring a large pot of salted water to a boil (I start the water after I've washed my tomatoes). Add the pasta and cook until al dente.  Drain and add to the sauce along with the prosciutto and pine nuts.  Toss to combine and soften the cheese.  Add salt and pepper (if you want).  Enjoy!

Holy Tomatoes!

My friends and family have been more than generous with their tomatoes this season.  On top of my 1/2 share from the Royal Oak Community Farm, I've had to get more creative than just salad toppings with my red fruit.  Tonight, I put a bunch to good use in a Tomato-Basil soup.  The recipie is from Williams-Sonoma's Weeknight Cook cookbook. 

Plum tomatoes, 10, halved
Garlic, 2 cloves minced
Fresh Basil, 4 TBS chopped
Olive Oil, 5 TBS
Shallots, 4, halved (I used a small white onion from the farm)
Dry white wine, 1 1/2 cups
salt and pepper
YIELD:  4

1  Roast the tomatoes

Preheat the oven to 400F.  Arrange the tomatoes cut side up in a roasting pan or heavy duty cookie sheet.    Sprinkle with the garlic and 1 tablespoon of the basil and drizzle with 4 tablespoons of the oil. 

Roast until the tomatoes are soft when pierced with a fork, about 25 minutes.  Remove and discard the skins (I used two sets of tongs to do this). 

 2  Simmer the Soup

In a saucepan over medium-high heat, warm the remaining oil.  Add the onion and saute for about 2 minutes.  Add the roasted tomatoes, wine and 1/2 cup of water and bring to a boil.  Reduce the heat to medium-low and simmer, uncovered, until the mixture has thickened, about 20 minutes.  Season with salt and pepper.  (The seasoning is key-if you skip it, the soup will be really yucky!)

I like to think of step 2 as the "Enjoy the remaining wine" step.

3 Puree the Soup

Using a food processor or blender, puree the soup to the desired consistency.  Return to pan and reheat to serving temperature.  Garnish with remaining basil and enjoy. 

Enjoy!

Frugal is the new "cool"

Everyone loves a good deal and I'm no exception.  Since I've started working for myself, and work is harder to come by than I initially thought, I've been putting more effort into being thoughtful about my spending (or saving).

• I haven't given up all luxury.  A girl still needs a latte, right?  Instead, I've registered my Starbucks gift card so that I can earn bonus drinks (every 15th one is free!) and get exclusive offers.  I also put my allocated weekly coffee funds on there and when it's gone it's gone. 
• Couponing is not just a passive activity.  It requires a guru, a partner, and some stamina.  If you can make it through the first month, you can make it!  I don't pay for personal items (pads, tampons, diapers, wipes, body soap, deodorant, razors, etc.) any more.  Our snack stash is awesome.  I get fruit juice for 25c.  And I love showing off my savings after I make a killing at the grocery store.  If you are interested in this, my friend (and guru) Stephanie is going to teach a class at my house.  The date is TBD, it will cost $10 and will be so much fun.  Leave a comment if you want to come.  If you think you can navigate this world on your own, proceed with caution, but these bloggers are great resources:
• Bargains to Bounty - She matches up deals at Detroit area grocery stores.  She also has a discussion board on her FB page where fans can trade coupons
• Coupon Crazy Chrys - Weekly drugstore deals
• This Side of Eternity - I don't really check her blog, but she posts great deals on Facebook
• Saving Cents with Sense - Good deals on Facebook
• Groupon - I wake up and I check the daily Groupon.  Not only for Detroit but also for Chicago and other cities that I plan to visit.  The deal has to be at least 50% off the organizations best deal.  Entertainment, spa, food, recreation...I've purchased them for me, for my family and for my friends.  I listed this last because I'm not sure I'm saving money with Groupons, but I'm definitely getting great deals with them.  Think holiday, birthday and wedding gifts! 
• Go "shopping" at the library - Fill a bag with new books, videos, CDs - enjoy for 3 weeks - repeat.  Our public library also offers fun family programming.  For example, on Wednesday mornings the ROPL offers story time for 2 and 3 year olds.  They have several other programs including musical story time.  All of these activities are free, but they do require registration. 
• Check out a Museum Adventure Pass - free admission to 20 or so local attractions.  Available at the library.   
• Shop the clearance racks - If you can guesstimate what size your kids will be in a year, stock up on clothes for the following year at the end of the season when stores are clearing room for the new lines.  I scored some adoreable Carter's gear at the end of summer.  Shorts for $2 and t-shirts for $1. 
• VRBO - Vacation Rental by Owner is a wonderful resource for out of town home rentals. Our most recent vacation was on the west side of Michigan and we landed a great deal on a two bedroom, in-town condo.  We paid about what we would have paid for a Holiday Inn, but had a full kitchen and a separate room for the babies. You can read reviews, check out pictures and book directly with the owners. 
• Mom to Mom sales - the new and improved rummage sale!  Tables and tables of nicely priced kids stuff.  Clothes, toys, books, and more.  The M2M season is upon us.  Plan to pay a small entrance fee (usually a buck or two that supports the school or church that is hosting the sale).  Check the list on Friday and make your Saturday game plan, grab a girlfriend, borrow a truck and hunt those deals. 

I'd love to hear your tips and tricks for saving cash and having fun. 

Allergen Friendly Finds

When Eleanor was very small, she had recurring rashes all over her body. They were red and scaly and itchy looking. Sometimes the spots even oozed. The pediatrician prescribed creams that seemed to help for a few days, but the spots kept returning. Autoimmune deficiency was one concern he mentioned and after he said that, I couldn’t hear anything else. I was terrified and anxious and confused. We took Eleanor to the clinic to have her blood drawn (I cried when they poked her little arm with the needle…she barely winced) and waited the requisite “few days” before calling the doctor’s office for the results. As it turns out, she has food allergies. In fact, both of my children are allergic.

It was difficult to eliminate wheat, eggs, dairy and nuts form my diet while breastfeeding, but it is even more difficult to know that my kids won't know the joy of pizza, milk shakes, pasta, and more. That being said, we are so thankful that the scary rashes weren’t indicative of something more serious. The doctors think they will outgrow the allergies, but until then, we are always on the lookout for interesting recipes, foods, and tips for dining (while packing the epi pen just in case). I should note that I am not a nutritionist, doctor or any other kind of expert. Please remember to read the labels and always proceed with caution when it comes to eating (or feeding your kids) with allergies.

I've compiled a list of foods and resources below, but this is just the tip of the iceberg.

Enjoy Life
Enjoy Life is committed to making gluten free foods without the 8 most common allergens. They also have a page with recipes here.

Dr. Lucy’s
Lucy’s gluten-free, vegan cookies are made with no milk, eggs, peanuts or tree nuts--but you'd never know it because they're delicious! We find convenient snack packs of her cookies at Starbucks.

Bob’s Red Mill
Bob’s makes a ton of whole grain foods. They also take great pride in their gluten free, casein free and dairy free facility. I have yet to call, but their website boasts a customer service center with professionals ready to answer questions about gluten free living -- (800) 349-2173.

Ian’s
All of Ian’s food is all natural and organic and they come in convenient packages. Ian’s website has a handy page where you can select which allergens your child is dealing with and they will provide a list of acceptable Ian’s meals.

Van’s Natural Foods
Specializing in all natural, frozen breakfast food, Van’s had wheat free, dairy free, egg free, nut free frozen waffles and French toast sticks.

Barbara’s Bakery
All natural, no additives is Barbara’s claim to fame. Their site isn’t as friendly as some others for allergy information, but there are a few fun recipes. We buy the Puffin’s cereal at Trader Joe’s.

Gluten Free Goddess
I’ve also found a few interesting recipes on this blog. For our kids, the gluten and free vegan ones seem to do the trick.

Trader Joe’s offers an extensive list of Gluten Free foods available in their store.

Whole Foods has several allergen friendly finds, but you will pay a premium here. I always check in at the customer service desk to see if they have any coupons and to pick up their sales flyer.

Dining out can be tricky. In the beginning, we did a lot of research before heading out to eat. Most restaurants have allergen information online in an easy to read format. As a rule, we can almost always find something acceptable at a Mexican restaurant. Chipotle has been a really great place for Eleanor to dine.

Detroit Area allergy friendly food places

Sugar Kisses Bakery
All natural, wheat free bakery that also does vegan baked goods.

Amici’s Pizza
They offer gluten free dough!

In home staples:
Veggies, fruit, meat, wheat free pasta (Eleanor seems to really enjoy quinoa and rice pastas), Kix cereal, Naked Nuggets (we get a massive pack at Cost-co), Ore-Ida Alphabet Tater-tots or McCain’s smiley’s, freeze dried fruit, soy/rice milk, edamame,

Once every few weeks, we’ll make a batch of wheat, egg, dairy and nut free pancakes and freeze them. When Eleanor is in the mood, we just pop one in the toaster oven until it’s warmed through (about 8 minutes).

1 ½ cups Bob’s Red Mill Glulten Free Pancake mix

¼ cup apple sauce

½ tsp baking powder

¾ cup soy milk

Mix , make and enjoy!

**An egg substitute for baking:
For every egg, use ¼ c apple sauce and ½ tsp baking powder**

The Jet Set

We have been traveling with our kids from the time they were both very young. Some trips were easier than others. When Eleanor was 6 weeks old, I flew with her from Michigan to North Dakota where I spent a week-long visit. I was a bit intimidated to make the trek alone, but was pleasantly surprised at how non-stressful it was. There were a few key components to that successful trip: preparation, confidence and trust. The most difficult trip I took was to North Carolina when I was 7.5 months pregnant, it was the dead of August, and Eleanor was just over a year old. I was enormous, she was busy, it was unearthly hot…it was a less than ideal situation and I do NOT recommend attempting this alone. Fortunately, there were a few cousins and a best friend waiting at the end of the flight to enjoy our company so that by the time we had to return, most of the suffering had been forgotten. Here are a few tips (and anecdotes) for stress-less (it will never be stress-free) traveling with babies.

ORGANIZATION REIGNS SUPREME

Do not OVER pack (someone has to carry it all to and from the airport, to and from the rental car, to and from the hotel). Likewise, do not UNDER pack. God forbid you find yourself in the middle of Nebraska without Billy’s Beloved Binky.

Carry-on necessities

• Diapers and wipes. Pack more than you think you’ll need in your carry-on bag. The last thing you want is to be stranded in the airport without a clean diaper. Yes, you could purchase one from the gift shop in the airport, but do you want to trust an un-vetted diaper in a closed environment? I also pack a few disposable changing pad covers because airport bathrooms rarely have changing pad covers. Also, many planes we’ve traveled on do not have changing tables in the bathrooms. If you need to make a switcher-oo on top of the toilet, it’s nice to have a clean pad.

• Pacifier, food, formula, snacks, juice. Don’t forget the instruments to deliver the goods, too. Double check the FAA guidelines, but last I checked you may carry on food and beverage for the baby. It just needs to go through the x-ray. 35,000 miles in the air is NOT the time to attempt to introduce a food to junior. Take something that you know the kid will eat no matter what.

• A receiving blanket. Very handy for breastfeeding (if you don’t have a fancy hooter hider) and for covering the baby when tired.

• Entertainment. We all know entertainment can come in a variety of forms. Please be considerate and leave the loud, flashy, big, annoying toys at home. Better yet, ship them to grandma’s house.

• An extra outfit. Do not get caught on a flight without a blow-out back-up outfit. Not a person on the 757 will be happy with you.

• Any required medication. We cannot leave the house without an epi pen in case of an allergic reaction. Make sure you have all important meds with you. No matter how much you beg and plead, the cargo folks will not open the underbelly to get your kid’s Zyrtec for you.

Packing Tips

• If you must bring a car seat, invest in a car seat bag. You can pack not only your car seats in them, but also diapers and other bulky items you can’t fit in your luggage or your carry-on.

• Keep, don’t pack, your stroller with you. Especially if you’re traveling alone, the stroller can be a back saver! When you arrive at your departure gate, see the agent and request a plane side check ticket for the stroller. Attach the neon ticket, roll the kid down the jet bridge and leave it (the stroller, not the baby) for the ground crew to stash. When you arrive pick the stroller up at the door.

• Think through one day in the life of your kid. Bathing routine, eating routine, dressing routine. Don’t forget the extras: burp cloths, blankets, food, pacifiers, bottles, etc. Resist the urge to pack all of baby’s favorite toys. They WILL survive a trip with just one or two toys.

• Resist the urge to pack every “favorite” outfit. People will think your kid is adorable naked, in a diaper, or in a food covered onesie…This is the hardest category for me to edit.

• If you know there will be a washing machine at your destination, plan to use it.

• Do not be afraid to use minimalist principles. If you’re traveling alone, you will have to manage the baby and the bags and the equipment on your own. Make sure you take only the necessities (for you and for baby). Practice carrying and maneuvering in your house.

DO NOT BE INTIMIDATED

You are neither the first, nor the last person to travel with a little person (or people as it may be the case). Babies can get away with a LOT more than grown-ups can. People tend to be helpful and courteous -usually. Not always. Once, we were flying with Eleanor when she was about 6 months old. Chris and I were seated side by side in the aisle and middle seats of a three row airplane section. When we found our spot, the melancholy teenager in the window seat mumbled under his breath “Great. A baby.” He rolled his eyes, popped his hood, slumped into the corner and blasted his IPod for the next 350 miles. Pleasant.

What works to pacify your baby at home will also work to pacify your baby on a flight. We found it helpful to feed the babies on the way up and the way down. The swallowing helps pop their ears. And the food helps them to fall asleep.

UTILIZE YOUR NETWORK

Do you need to drag a pack 'n' play per kid across the continent? No. Most hotels have cribs that they will set up prior to your arrival, just be sure to request one when you make your reservation. We always pack an extra baby sheet so we know our sensitive skinned kids are sleeping on something that was washed in “free” detergent. If you’re not going the hotel route, ask around to see if your host has, or knows anyone who might have, a pack 'n' play you can borrow. Same rules apply for car seats, exer-saucers, bouncy seats and any other huge bonus equipment. Before our babies were mobile (rolling, crawling, walking, driving…), we could make a “bed” in a dark corner in the hotel room. If you’re comfortable with it, little ones can also share your bed.

HOME AWAY FROM HOME

When you arrive at your destination, familiarize yourself and your travel partner with where the baby goodies are located. Everyone is in an unfamiliar place and it will alleviate a lot of stress to know where the diapers, extra clothes, first aid kit, food, etc. are located.

Our kids are getting bigger and it’s been a while since we’ve flown. I’m sure there will be a new set of challenges the next time we brave the friendly skies. If anyone has tips for traveling with a toddler and an infant, please share! Also, we have yet to attempt a long road trip for which I am sure the rules are different.

The Kid List

I work at a great institution that's recently seen a sort of baby boom.  Last week, an informal discussion thread about how to deal with kiddie cabin fever was started.  For those parents that live in the Detroit area, here's the beginning of a great resource.  Please share and add more activities!

Plymouth Play Café – Plymouth
http://www.plymouthplaycafe.com/

Monday – Saturday 9am-8pm S
Sunday 10:30am-8:00pm

Admission

0-12 months Free
13-23 months $3
2-14 years $6
Adults Free

Reviews: Addison LOVES it there. They clean the inside of the play equipment really well but the outside is kind of dusty. I believe they also have wireless there for parents and serve food too.

Booth Park – Birmingham
http://ci.birmingham.mi.us/index.aspx?page=1521

Reviews:
Bring cardboard for the astro-turf sledding hill. It's a blast!

Jungle Java Play – Ann Arbor, Canton, and Farmington Hills
http://www.junglejavaplay.com/

Monday-Friday 8:30am-8:00pm
Saturday 9:00am-8:00pm
Sunday 10:00am-8:00pm

Admission
2 years-17 years $6.50
12 mos-23 mos $3.00
<12 mos and adults Free
Memberships available

Reviews:
Emma has always loved Java Jungle. I think I first took her there when she was two. Adults are allowed to climb around too. In fact I had to on the large big kid playscape because she wasn't big enough to pull herself up yet. Didn't seem to bother her, "Daddy Uppy!”


Pump it up Party – Auburn Hills, Shelby Township, St. Clair Shores, Wixom, Taylor
http://www.pumpitupparty.com/

Auburn Hills 248-375-1100
Shelby Township 586-416-4386
St. Clair Shores 586-775-7865
Wixom 248-912-1090
Taylor 734-946-2017

Reviews:
I think this place is mostly for birthday parties, you need to call for open play times. There are lots of inflatable fun zones in the Detroit area but they all cater to birthday parties. Some advertize family jump times but it's not geared towards working families. Hence why we haven't gone.


The Tree House- Chelsea
http://thechelseatreehouse.com/

M, T, Su 10:00 am-5:00 pm
W, Th, F, Sa 10:00 am-8:00 pm

Admission
0-12 months Free
1-15 years $6.00
16+ w/ child Free
Memberships available


Detroit Zoo – Royal Oak
http://www.detroitzoo.org/

November 1 - March 31 10 a.m.-4 p.m.
April 1 - Labor Day 9:00 am-5:00 pm (til 8:00 on Wednesdays in July and August)
Day after Labor Day - October 31 10:00 am-5:00 pm
Closed: Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year’s Day

Admission
$11 - Adult, 15 years - 61
$7 - Child, 2 years - 14
$9 - Senior, 62 years+
$9 - Active military w/ID
Free - Under 2 years


Detroit Institute of Arts - Detroit
http://www.dia.org/

On Sundays, the DIA offers special family programming that includes story time, performances and artist demonstrations.

W and Th 10:00 am – 4:00 pm
F 10:00 am – 10:00 pm
Sa and Su 10:00 am – 5:00 pm
M and T Closed

Admission
$8 per adult
$6 seniors
$4 per youth (6—17)
Children 5 and under free
Members get in free

Ann Arbor Hands on Museum – Ann Arbor
http://www.aahom.org/

M-Sa 10:00 am-5:00 pm
Su noon-5:00 pm

Admission
2 years+ $9
<2 years Free
Membership available

Detroit Science Center - Detroit
http://www.detroitsciencecenter.org/

The DSC offers an activity guide http://www.detroitsciencecenter.org/attachments/Revised_KT_EduGuide_color.pdf

T-F 9:00 am-3:00 pm
Sa, Su 10:00 am-6:00pm

Admission
13 years + $13.95
<12 and >60 $11.95
Memberships available


My Urban Toddler - Saline
http://www.myurbantoddler.com/t-Play.aspx

Mon-Sat: 9am-6pm
Sunday: 12pm-5pm

Admission
$5/child

MUT offers classes for expectant parents, new parents, breastfeeding moms, infants and toddlers.

Gymboree Play and Learn – Rochester, Birmingham, Clinton Township, Riverview
http://www.gymboreeclasses.com/

Hours and programs vary by location.

Drop in play time is $10 without a membership.

Malls with play areas

Twelve Oaks
Lakeside
Oakland


FOR BIGGER KIDS
CJ Barrymores -
http://www.cjbarrymores.com/html/home.html

Reviews:
Most of the stuff is for slightly older kids but the water wars looks right up Emma's alley.


Joe Dumars Fieldhouse - Warren
http://www.joedumarsfieldhouse.com/entertainment/index.php

Reviews:
It looks pretty cool but maybe for elementary school age and older

Skate Parks – Birmingham, Clinton Township

Birmingham Skate Park
http://ci.birmingham.mi.us/index.aspx?page=747

Hours
dawn-10:00 pm

Landslide Skate Park
http://www.landslidesk8.com/

What to do, what to do...

All too often we take for granted the great activities available in our own backyard. If you are from the 313, 586, 810, 248 or 734 and haven't done MOST of these--get to it!




Detroit Institute of Arts
http://www.dia.org/


The weekend programming has something for everyone including Saturday Drop in workshops and Target Family Sundays. Stop at the info desk and get a list of daily activities and don't forget to hit the gift shop (one of my favorite places to buy gifts). The DIA is closed on Mondays and Tuesdays.




Detroit Zoo
http://www.detroitzoo.org/


This world class zoo is open year round. If you visit in the wintertime, there are plenty of indoor exhibits including the Arctic Ring of Life, Amphibiville and the Penguinarium. No matter when you go, be sure to stop into the Wildlife Interpretive Gallery to check out the art exhibit, the movie on the history of the zoo and the famous butterfly house.




Detroit Science Center
http://www.detroitsciencecenter.org/


As a kid, I remember awesome field trips to the Science Center. It's a fun place where young and old folks can explore while learning a thing or two. There's an IMAX theater, planetarium and a ton of hands on exhibits.


The Henry Ford Museum and Greenfield Village
http://www.hfmgv.org/


A crazy collection of artifacts and exhibits that you won't believe unless you see them yourself. The Kennedy Presidential Limo, the Lincoln Chair, Rosa Parks' bus, George Washington camp bed, and myriad planes, trains and automobiles. Plan to spend at least 4 hours in the Museum. The Village is like traveling back to a simpler time when everyone made their own candles, dishes and clothing. Visit Edison’s think shop, working farms, candle making facility and many more fun exhibits. Greenfield Village is not open in the wintertime.




Detroit Riverboat Cruise
http://www.diamondjack.com/


Captain Jack offers a wonderful, narrated tour of the Detroit River shoving off from the riverfront near the Ren Cen. Sites include Belle Isle, the Manoogian Mansion and the Hiram Walker Distillery. Open June-September.




Heidelberg Project
http://www.heidelberg.org/
Ever wonder what those graffiti dots are that you see painted on blight around town? Local artist, Tyree Guyton, mixes social commentary and politics in his crazy art installation that has taken over an otherwise desolate neighborhood. Visit the Heidelberg Project and it will start to make some sense. Tack on a trip into the city for a meal and you’ve got a day planned.




Greektown
http://www.visitgreektown.com/


Food. Casino. Bars. As far as I’m concerned, no more info required. However, if you want more details visit the link above.


Lions, Tiger and Wings, Oh MY!


http://www.detroitlions.com/
http://detroit.tigers.mlb.com/
http://redwings.nhl.com/


Detroit is a great sports town. Even if you don't take in a game, head downtown for some pre- or post-game festivities.




Please share with me your favorite things to do in and around Detroit. I always love a good recommendation. And stay tuned for suggestions as to do in the area for a day trip or long weekend. Also coming-fun shopping destinations!

Back to work mission: Operation Wardrobe

-9 degrees
2 hour time limit
18 month old in a stroller
2 month old strapped to my front
outlet mall looming
My mission:  Find some clothes that fit, look good and don't break the bank

Panicked yet?  I was!  I am returning to work on January 11th from maternity leave and refuse to spend a ton of money on clothes that I don't intend to be wearing for very long.  I'm typically a size 6 but after the birth of our daughter I got used to being a size 8.  However, this size 12 is entirely new to me and not something I'm handling gracefully. Last week, I was feeling brave (or insane) and pulled out THE jeans...You know the ones that make your butt look great, nothing hangs over the edge of the waistband, and give you mile long gams?  I struggled to get those suckers over my thighs. 

Where I work, clothing is something of a requirement, so I set out with babies and best friend in tow in search of something appropriate to wear to the office.  The only sensible place I could think to shop was the outlet mall, so we headed to the nearest one with a mission:  find clothes that don't suck.  Megan was having a party at her house later that day and was given a strict return time by her husband.  No problem....We just need a few pieces.  Two hours is PLENTY of time...

Our first stop:  Coach factory store.  Purses and shoes are perfect buys when I'm avoiding clothes shopping.  They always fit, no matter how much muffin I have on top.  Oversized, super sassy, leather satchel-check!  Leather writing portfolio for all those important meetings-check!  Belt for the hubby so I don't take too much grief for buying leather goods instead of clothes-check!  Feeling good about my finds, we proceeded down the long, outdoor mall.  There are so many store fronts to pop into "just for a second" to see what we could find for the kids.  I don't know about you, but the other avoidance purchase that's oh-so-fun is clothing for the babies.  It's cute, it's cheap and it always fits!  Carters, Gymboree, Polo, Osh Kosh, Stride Rite, Baby Gap, Old Navy...we hit them all.

As the astute reader I'm sure you are, you've probably noticed by now that I have not hit one reasonable store for accomplishing my original mission.  The clock tells us that we should be leaving the mall in 20 minutes...and given all the bags and babies we were lugging, it would take at least that long to get loaded into the car.  However, we were on a mission. Banana Republic outlet was having a sale...most things were 40% off the already low outlet prices. Just my size! We hurried in (after a quick stop to feed and change the crew) and snapped up everything that fit the rules a la Stacey and Clinton: thick waistband, wide legged pants; tops that fit the smallest part and flow away from the trouble spots; colors that flatter.  I felt like I was on Super Market Sweep, but instead of finding the most expensive groceries, I had to find the least expensive wardrobe.  There was no time to try anything on, and it was on a wing and a prayer that we made it through the store.  Lincoln was screaming, Eleanor was hungry, Megan was worried and I was stressed.  I managed to spend less than $300 and made it out of the store with 4 pair of pants, 5 shirts, 1 cami, and 1 pair of pajama pants (something that will certainly fit) all in sizes that should fit my new physique .

We made it home an hour after our promised return time (sorry Kyle!). The kids napped on the way and we were exhilarated by all that we had accomplished during our outing.  The fashion show that evening was a success.  The pants all have waistbands, the shirts are work appropriate (and baby drool free), and I feel good wearing everything. THE jeans will have to wait a few more months, but I'm determined to fit them again.  Until then, I will embrace my new shape and size.  After all, I have the best consolation prize-my beautiful baby boy!

Managing memories

'Tis the end of the season and tonight the Christmas tree is coming down. Chris and I will enjoy steaming cups of salted caramel hot chocolate as we carefully wrap and store the ornaments. Every year, I get excited to find the little handmade holiday wreath with Chris' kindergarten picture in the middle. Growing up, my parents weren't the best record keepers. This didn't really affect me until recently. We have two babies and I often find myself wondering things like what was the first word I spoke, what were my parents doing when I was little, are any of these Christmas ornaments from when I was a baby...


Fortunate for some kids (not mine!), scrap booking has become quite popular. While I am not interested in this methodical documentation of our lives, I would like to leave a legacy for my kids to share with their children and grand children. Here are a few simple things we do to keep track of what's going on and, hopefully, create that legacy:

Bins
Each kid has their own 13 qt box for every year of existence (Eleanor 0-1, 1-2, etc.). I throw all kinds of stuff in the box including newspaper articles, pictures, cards received...anything I think they might find interesting in 20 years.


Notes
I don't have a ritual for doing this and, admittedly, I've not been as good about writing notes to Lincoln, baby #2. Whenever the mood strikes me, I jot a little note and toss it into the bin. Typically, it's about what they're doing lately or a ritual we enjoy together. Occasionally, the notes are about what I'm up to as a parent and things I worry about for their futures. While this might seem trivial, I know I would have loved this keepsake.

Ornament box
We have divided ornament boxes (purchased after the holidays to get the best deal, of course) for each kid. I like to hit the after Christmas sales and purchase an ornament or two for the kids. Eventually, they'll have a full box and a head start on decorating their first tree.

Pictures
I use an online photo printing and sharing site (shutterfly.com) to store, share, organize and print pictures. I keep the pictures in files according to month and year. When I'm feeling especially motivated, I turn those pictures into photo books or other keepsake gifts. My dad loved the personalized Father's Day card he received from Eleanor!


Do you have any quick and easy tips to share to keep it all together?  Please, nothing that requires a glue stick, sassy scissors or photo corners!

Fortunate Dread

I am torn between feeling fortunate and feeling totally depressed.

I am fortunate to have a great job at a wonderful institution and am just wrapping up the most amazing 3 months of maternity leave one could ask for. The thought of leaving my beautiful babies for 8 hours a day has me completely depressed and distressed. Not to mention the drama associated with my work wardrobe....while this is an entirely different topic, it's one that will be getting some attention in the next few days. After all, I don't intend to be this size or shape for much longer, but I do have to acquire some clothing that is appropriate for work and the auto show floor. I digress.

My pregnancy was long and uncomfortable (why wouldn't it be with a 10+ pounder growing inside me?!) and my doctor suggested I take off early. My last day of work was in late September, nearly a month before my son was born. In retrospect, it was such a treat to have the extra few weeks to spend with Eleanor before she became a big sister. We enjoyed several trips to the zoo, long walks in the neighborhood, visits with grandpa and lunches with daddy. It was an incredible three weeks. Once Lincoln arrived, it only got better. He is beautiful and healthy and happy and his sister is in L-O-V-E!

I am returning to work on January 11. My colleagues are incredibly supportive and are like a second family to me. While I'm looking forward to being back on campus surrounded by those wonderfully creative minds, I have a minor panic attack every time I think about making the drive down I-75. I can just imagine Eleanor's face at the screen door as I pull down the driveway...I've seen it before, taut with sadness and tear streaked. I know it will only last a few minutes for her but that impression will plague me through the day. The mantra that carried me the first time I took the plunge from home to work was "I'm doing this for you, little one. I'm setting a good example. I'm providing resources for our family." I'll try those again.

Over the next 10 days I will be taking extra care to focus on what really matters.